Butterflyxx Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year, and for the most part I message him first in the morning, after school etc however on Monday I got tired of messaging him first, plus recently he's always seemed busy to talk and he was online so I figured he didn't want to talk as much so I thought it was best to give him some space and if he wanted to message me he would. At 9pm he messaged me first but I was already asleep so I didn't reply and in the morning I forgot to check my phone so at 8am he senthe me another message being sarcastic asking why I was ignoring him and then said 'I'll see you later, that's if you even wanna see me.' This annoyed me because he's able to ignore me loads of times and I try and be understanding but ONCE when I leave him to message me first and I fall asleep he gets mad. Why?? Also, in the past he used to always get rejected by girls (I was one of these girls until I spent more time with him and realised he was a nice guy), so do you think it's an ego thing? Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 I think he's a spoiled brat who wants his own way all the time. Tell him he can text first, since this is such a big deal to him, part of the time, you dont have to always be first. Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 He sounds clingy and insecure.What does he think couples did before cell phones became common? You're allowed a life without being surveilled by him 24/7 .He can ignore your texts but gets angry when you couldn't text him back in timely manner because you fell asleep? That's a control issue If he gets angry over silly things then it won't be a healthy relationship. Link to comment
Butterflyxx Posted November 22, 2015 Author Share Posted November 22, 2015 He is also sarcastic when I meet my friends, for example I see my boyfriend every Saturday but this week I decided to spend the whole weekend with my best friend as she was upset these past few weeks but Friday got cancelled so I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to meet but he said maybe as he was a seeing his mate and I tried messaging him that night and he just ignored me. He always makes sarcastic comments when I hang out with my friends yet he sees his friends loads and I don't say anything. Link to comment
mhowe Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 Why are you still with him. Neither of you does anything but complain and ignore the other. Wouldn't life be more fun single so you don't have to deal with these mindless games? Link to comment
Helpexpressme Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 You have problem after problem with this guy. Why do you put up with it so much? The whole issue is that he ignores you 99% of the time, but you keep coming back for more. There comes a time, when you have to just stop and let go. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted November 22, 2015 Share Posted November 22, 2015 I wouldn't make a problem out of nothing. I'd overlook it and just say, "Good morning. Sure, I'd love to see you. When is good for you?" Texting is unimportant and nothing to fight about. Link to comment
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