partyviolets Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 So my ex broke up with me at the beginning of October and we haven't spoken since. I have been doing my best to move on - deleted his number, deleted him from Facebook, unfollowed on Instagram/Twitter. I've kept busy, joined the gym, been doing things with friends and focusing on work. I feel like the breakup has allowed me to have a real view of the relationship and what went wrong and what we should have done to prevent it getting to the point of a breakup. I'm still hopeful that one day, if things are meant to be we will have a chance at reconciliation. However, today I realised he has unfollowed me on instragram and twitter. I know it's bad that I've still been looking at his accounts on there - but what's done is done now I guess. I don't see why he would unfollow me now? It would have made sense if he did it straight after the breakup.
Blue_Skirt Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 He did the same what you did, unfriend/unfollow/delete, just a little later, what’s the difference? I think you are disappointed because HE unfollowed YOU, since you still hoped for a reconciliation.
partyviolets Posted November 18, 2015 Author Posted November 18, 2015 I did it to him because he was the one to break up with me and I didn't want any of his posts coming up on my newsfeed - because say I'm just scrolling through and an update from him pops up, it would just have me thinking of him. I wouldn't say I'm disappointed, I just find it strange. The BU wasn't nasty but I said I needed some space in order to move on. He said he wanted us to be able to be friends and speak in the future when I'm ready. So I don't see why he would unfollow me now? He was the one who wanted the BU and the one who said he didn't want me to not be in his life in future.
Dcgent Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 You are waiting your time and energy worrying about something like this. It is just something new for you to obsess over...but what you really need to do is focus on your future. This is so trivial...
Clinton Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 No biggie. Over is over. Who cares at this stage
mhowe Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Most.likely because he has found something new to interest him and he realized that following your.activities was a waste of time.
Movingforward3 Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 I know understand. It is hard when they just leave and disappear. At the end of the day, you have to find your on closure. Do the best you can to move on and remind yourself this love story doesn't have a happy ending. It is hard to let go, but you have to find ways to do so. I am sorry for your pain.
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