Truebleu27 Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 Ok, so my crush happens to be a very flirty and outgoing person. And so he naturally flirts with a lot of girls without relizing it. But I'm trying to figure out if he likes me or not. I've found him staring at me a lot (and I know he's seen me staring at him). Amd whenever we sit on a couch together he puts his arm around me and kinda pulls me towards him. He will 'booty bump' me a lot and will often take my phone or wallet out of my pocket or mess with my belt or chains. If i am wearing a lowhanging necklace *and only If I am wearing it like that* he will grab it and at the end of the day ask to borrow it or the jacket I'm wearing that day. He gave he his number almost immidietly and followed all my social media accounts. Insted of texting me he sends voice messages or calls me, sometimes out of nowhere. We will text all day and during class. He has invited me to his house before, and to parties where all we do is mess around and sit together. And a week ago me and one of my friends were laying on a bed watching tv (she was on her back and I was laying over her so we formed a t) and he came over and layed on me (and then one of my other male friends layed in him) and he kept subtly grabbing at me or putting his hand on my side or ass and if he thought I was uncomfortable he would shift his weight and he made the guy on him get off cuz he said he didn't want to crush me. Whenever we have class together we work/study together and he always sits behind me and plays with my hair, like a lot. He's always trying to get me to hug him, and when I do he flips out and makes someone take a picture. And he's always asking me to take selfies with him. He has invited me to his house and some paeries theee where all we do is mess around and sit together. He will stop me on the halls and we will talk the entire 15 minuye passing period untill we are late for class, and in class he makes a big deal of people knowing he's talking to me or working with me and he dosent care if they see him reaching for my necklace or the phone in my back pocket. When he found out we like a lot of the same movies and have almost identical taste in music he flipped and got super happy amd we talked about it for 2 hours in the middle of the night. When he dated someone else he told me immediately and I played it off like I didn't care and they broke up the next day while his relationship before he started flirting with me lasted over a month. He's always making sexual jokes or complementing or messing with me. And if I pull a mussle or hurt myself he takes care not to make it any worse at all and if he does he flushes and apologizes excessively. He's always offering me his jacket or randomly hugging me and not letting go. In groups he makes sure to talk to me and be extra nice to my friends (kinda worried about that) and we can talk a lot or a little without it being aquward. And when we are together he stands so our shoulders are touching, or wjen we sit our legs. Hes always smiling at me or sinding some exxuse to touch or talk to me. When he found out we like the same movies, books, and music he staeted talking about hiw those things vhange us and how peiple who like the same thibgs like that are more compatable because they have changed in the same way and are more likley to go out and succeed in a relationship. And he shared some what I think is really personal music with me from when he was growing up. But I'm worried he doesn't like me, or if he does will not ask me out. I mean, he flirts with a lot of girls. I know he hugs one other girl a lot but she's 4 years older and graduating this year so I really hope there's nothing there. And I he talks to other girls around me which I guess is kinda to be expected but it makes me crazy jealous. Or that i talk to much and bore him. But I'm worried that if he does like me because he dated one of my friends and she hated him now, so me may think I wouldn't go out with him because of that. Like he knows were friends and that I won't quit being friends with him because of her but still. And I'mI'm a so worried we will up our friendship with dating but I can't get him off my mind to the point I felt the need to write this and ask for advice. And I know a lot of other girls like him though, and he's noticed them but hasn't made a move on any of them. But he will trade jackets for the day with other girls and will pit his arm around then sometimes. Lastly if he dosent ask me out should I? I'm not sure i really could.
musicman777 Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 Hi, To be honest I think you should turn away from this guy. Sounds like he is just a big flirt that likes hitting on all the girls, not just you. He sounds like a common player. He hits on as many women as possible to get a couple nibbles like you. Nothing wrong with that, he might just be looking to have fun (erhm, sex). That's perfectly fine, people should do that when they are young. If you are looking for that as well, then sure you can hook up with him. But I wouldn't get my hopes up for a serious relationship with him or anything. He doesn't sound like good boyfriend material whatsoever. You said your friend dated him and hates him now. What more evidence do you want? You should find out the gritty details of that if your friend is open to that. I bet she will tell you everything I am.
Truebleu27 Posted November 17, 2015 Author Posted November 17, 2015 He broke up with her because she wanted more sexualy than he wanted to give. She's more into the physical relationships while he's more into the for lack of a better word intimate ones
Truebleu27 Posted November 17, 2015 Author Posted November 17, 2015 Hi, To be honest I think you should turn away from this guy. Sounds like he is just a big flirt that likes hitting on all the girls, not just you. He sounds like a common player. He hits on as many women as possible to get a couple nibbles like you. Nothing wrong with that, he might just be looking to have fun (erhm, sex). That's perfectly fine, people should do that when they are young. If you are looking for that as well, then sure you can hook up with him. But I wouldn't get my hopes up for a serious relationship with him or anything. He doesn't sound like good boyfriend material whatsoever. You said your friend dated him and hates him now. What more evidence do you want? You should find out the gritty details of that if your friend is open to that. I bet she will tell you everything I am. He broke up with her because she wanted more sexualy than he wanted to give. She's really into the physical aspects of relationships. And this is what she told me
ajiuo Posted November 17, 2015 Posted November 17, 2015 How does his friendliness towards other girls compared to you? Is he doing all of the exact same things to other girls. I mean it sounds like he likes you... But if all of what you said is how he normally treats everyone. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
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