Go to her or leave her be? Ex girlfriend issue

[RayScreamo]

So me and my ex girlfriend our relationship was great but unstable. I was unstable/immature. We had sex, we showed very solid love between each other. We held hands, kissed, support etc. She broke up with me because she said she started to see me as a brother/best friend she said some days she see me as a bf with love then others shed be like he's my brother. So she leaves me then later she gets with her ex gf then after that she dates this guy and she seemed really happy with him (long distance relationship) but in recent times I found out they broke up bcuz she said It got weird between them. She now acts like she wants to be alone, last time we talked a few days ago she wanted me to go away but she was showing signs of wanting to talk to me even though it was a small argument. She didn't walk away, she stayed, she looks at me etc. Straight forward. We argued bcuz my friend said her boyfriend has changed her etc. But the reality she wants to be alone but here's the problem. Everyone knows how much I love her. She acts like she wants to be alone but I dont want her to be alone. I had a plan that if I dont go to talk to her I just sit at the same table as her and just not speak (she sits alone) just to show that I'll always be there for her and that I'll be the one to stay by her side etc. I know she wants to be alone but should I show I'll be there for her by sitting with her? I dunno what I should do. I love her 100% she goes through my head 24/7. I accepted she'll never take me back, after i dated her i started my self growth and i have grown so much. But... I tried dating others and im not interested. I dont wanna date girls if i still love serena but my love for her never fades. I dont care if she loves me again, I just wanna show I'll never let her fall and be alone. So she can see I never left her side and that I'll always be by her side etc. What do you think? What should I do? Or something.

 

Second question - if possible how do I get her to see me as a lover and attraction etc?how do I make it not "weird" for us as she says

[Mischa234]

Anytime I've ever told someone I see them as a "brother" it's because they were really immature and annoying. Maybe she wants a serious lover.

 

I think you should just agree to be friends.

 

You can try to tell her how you feel, because honesty is better than silently suffering, but don't convince yourself she'll feel the same.

 

Also, you need to spend some time BEFORE you do anything thinking about whether you're really prepared to make that kind of commitment if she only ever sees you as a friend and never has true romantic feelings for you. Are you sure?

Because don't tell yourself you'll be there for her unless you know that you can be a friend. Maybe a year from now you won't want to be a friend anymore - that's okay, but if so you might want to start moving on.

[RayScreamo]

I'm way different than what I was, I'm more of a better stable guy now so the serious lover I can do no problem. And what do you mean spend time?

[DoF]

You need to stay away from this girl. She is unstable and shady. She also doesn't love you...if she did, she would've never left you.

 

Learn to recognize and accept thing for what they are TODAY, not hope for some fantasy that will most likely never happen.

 

She is stringing you along cause YOU LINGER. You are her fall guy. DO NOT be that guy.

[RayScreamo]

Her fall guy and linger? What do you mean?

[Dottieflanogon]

You'll care less about her and think about her (less) in the long run as time ensues and you meet other girls ,so, go out, and meet other girls. I know easier said than done