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So there's this girl, JM, that i've liked for awhile now. I'm a 17 year old guy, she's 18, fine with me. I started liking her during our school's Track season last year, so about 7 months ago. Through the summer, I forget if I continued liking her, I think I did, but i'm not sure. I barely ever see her in the hall due to her schedule, but when I see her, I think about nothing but her. I just want to look at her and say "Wow, you look great today!" or something, but we never talk and she's picky with her guys. I don't know her very well, we've never had an official conversation, and I don't know if she knows totally who I am.

 

So it's rough right now. I am not shy anymore, but with her, I get shy. I don't know how to approach her because she's never at my school and I don't have any way to contact her but through Twitter, through Direct Messages, aka sliding in the DMs for those Twitter users. She's a senior at our school, i'm a junior, and she tweets a lot about moving on next year in college and "starting over" as in getting new friends and such, mainly because we have a very crappy school, long story short.

 

So to wrap this up, how do I approach this girl through Twitter? There's no way I can talk to her in person, she wouldn't recognize me probably, sadly. I want to ask for her snapchat or number through Twitter somehow, eventually, but i'm basically trying to get with a stranger since we've never had a decent conversation.

 

I want this girl more than any other in the past. I was in a poor relationship when I started liking JM, then got out of it and felt great. But what bothered the heck out of me was how bad I wanted to get with JM after I broke up with my last ex. I wanted to get with her that day, just because I liked her that much.

 

How do I do this? Thanks.

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if you are not shy anymore, just send her a note saying that you go to school with her and you just want to be friends. friendship is a good starting place. i would tweet that you go to school with her and she seems like a nice person and you would like to get to know her. just start with something simple and work from there. also, work on not being shy with her. take little steps with this. think about her opening up to you and saying small things. if you see her in the hall, just say "how are you today" and keep walking. Don't worry about a relationship right now. just worry about getting in the door and by that, just start out in friendship mode or acquaintance mode and grow it from there. and from there, you will be able to figure out whether or not you are crushing on her or something else serious is there. take it slow and good luck to you

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