hopelesspengun Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Hello everyone. So I started university this september. There was this guy, let's call him Blue. Blue liked me very much, he was always kind to me, tried to protect me, went out of his way to help me etc. At that time I didn't really like Blue, we were on friendly terms but I didn't see him as a potential romantic partner, I actually had my eyes on someone else. On the last week of october, I found out that the guy I liked was a real jerk. Blue was always there for me, so naturally I depended on him. We spent more time together and started flirting. We would flirt through text and we would flirt face to face. I actually fell for him hard because he's just so sweet and wonderfull. At the start of last week something strange happened. We again flirted via text at tuesday night. On wednesday morning he came to school late. He always sat beside me but didn't that day. And we didn't talk at all. It was like that on thursday too. I got emotional and sent him a text asking if he was bored of me. He said ''Of course not dear, why would I be?'' On friday we met, he was very cold. But on friday night he again sent me flirtatious texts and asked to meet on saturday too. We went to gym together and he was cold there as well. After that I stopped texting him. When we see each other in school we do talk but he doesn't meet my eyes. He actually started hanging out with a new group of people, he asks me to hang out with them but doesn't look at me the same way he used to. He doesn't text me anymore either. He's hot and cold. I really wonder what happened in one night that made him bored of me. Everything was going great but then this happened.. I'm very heartbroken Also sorry if my English isn't great
Dottieflanogon Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Well the truth is he most likely had interest in you but lost it. This is probably because you were either coming off too strong or didn't show interest in return as something more than just a friendship.You should probably just go up and talk to him and see what's wrong with him and why he's acting this way.There could be various reasons about this, I think you should just ask her why he's been more quite lately...
jjkk Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I agree with dottieflanogon. I think asking him in a non-accusatory way if something happened or why things seem to have cooled between the two of you.
hopelesspengun Posted November 12, 2015 Author Posted November 12, 2015 Thank you guys both, I'll try that
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