Tchmarie Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 'm in DESPERATE need of some advice. So here's the whole back story... I have a friend whom i am very close with for the sake of this we'll call her "Tish". Tish and I were in very serious relationships that ended around the same time , but we all knew one another and were very close. I broke up with my girlfriend a few months before I started talking to a guy. One night I call Tish to check up on her I just ask "are you good is everything ok" she tells me yes and we hang up. 10 mins later her girlfriend calls me back and I hear the echo of a bathroom she says . "Why are you calling my girl asking if she's okay, of course she's okay why wouldn't she be ? She's with me. You need to fall back. " i respond "well that's fine I'm sorry you feel some type of way if i had your number id check up on you. Have a good night. " Mind you she and i know each other and i never thought we had an issue until then. A few minutes late I receive a text from tim apologizing for her girlfriends actions and telling me she hopes this doesn't interfere with our relationship. I let tish know its okay and that was it for that night. The next day me and Tish are texting like normal and she says "I think there should be more to us" im confused because i had never looked at time more than a friend I call Tish because i assumed it was her gf trying to make something seem like more than it was. I call and indeed it is Tish. So Tish and I agree to meet up and we have sex. No i wasn't right, but i was being spiteful and I already know they were having problems from infidelity from both of them. A month has gone by and my boyfriend comes over. Somehow another Tish and I discuss our sexual encounter through text and my guy sees it and he sends Tish's girlfriend our messages. There is a huge blow out between everyone and tish and her girlfriend break up. Me and Tish are good friends so yes the breakup caused an issue because it was indeed my fault but she and I are still good. So Tish and I have became bang buddys by this time and somehow another we start catching feelings but we fall back from one another because we know that wasnt the plan. As the months go on we've discussed life plans and having a child together. Only thing is Tish lives at home but has a female who lives there, but she lives with another women and most recently told me that her ex from 4 years ago is pregnant and she has agreed to be there because they discussed having a child together. Because we are both women Tish has asked on more than one occasion will I have a child with her using her egg and we co parent. Ive never been against it because I can honestly say we are each others biggest supporters. We speak everyday and pass I love yous but I don't know if she and I would ever be in an actual relationship. Which i don't think i have a problem with, but with her having a child on the way I don't know If I want to add another one to the mix especially since I feel like my feelings for her are conflicted. She's stated that she doesn't want to just be my friend but I know she's involved with multiple females. idk if its just sex (which I doubt because its been a year and we've only done it 3x) idk what to take from her emotions? Any advice would be helpful.
Movingforward3 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I am so confused. Are girl girl ? Boy girl?
Capricorn3 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I'm so confused too, have no idea what's going on.
Tchmarie Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 I am so confused. Are girl girl ? Boy girl? I am a Girl
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