Flozfz Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 My ex recently contacted me after 3 monts nc but shes stilll in a relationship she told me she wants me back and is going to break it up yeaterday and it never happen. She told me her timeline isnt ready i told her then dont mention anything then. I called her a liar and she said no im not im going yo do it with you or with out you?? Im like move on. She said that i forgotten anout her whatever this means its been so long and i have been moving on. Just curious was she just fishing? Shes been string me along for a while but this is my last time doing this too myself.. Yesterday she complain that the guy has her too much control and is nasty to her for no reason...I told her I'm not your friend to listen to your relationship problems I'm your ex.. Im sick if her ... Its too much now and i am done going back nc .
DoF Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Why are you engaging with your ex at all? She hasn't been stringing you along, YOU have allowed her to do it!!! Fact that she is in a relationship with a crappy guy should tell you exactly what kind of a girl she is. One that likes drama, bad boys, engages with unhealthy individuals and remains. Also one that lines up her ex WHILE in a relationship. Now you see why you do NOT allow ANY contact (block her/ignore her and get her completely out of your life). She will keep lingering as long as you allow it.
Movingforward3 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Op, I know how this is. However, unless she is ready to be back with you today it is just a game. Just playing a game. As hard as it is, let it go.
Dottieflanogon Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Block her from contacting you...You must also prevent any and all ways for her to be able to contact you - whichever way she tries.if she wanted to be with you, then she wouldn't be with this new guy now. As far as you know, she's still with this guy, right? Do not fall for her breadcrumbs. Do not respond, even to be polite.No contact means exactly that.
Flozfz Posted November 12, 2015 Author Posted November 12, 2015 Block her from contacting you...You must also prevent any and all ways for her to be able to contact you - whichever way she tries.if she wanted to be with you, then she wouldn't be with this new guy now. As far as you know, she's still with this guy, right? Do not fall for her breadcrumbs. Do not respond, even to be polite.No contact means exactly that. I think shes trying to parachute safety from this rebound back to me but im defiently not waiting for her. She also mention when we talk that i completely forgot about her.. Whst does she expect when shes with another man. I didnt contact for months i let her go. She contacted me crying like crazy is the only reason i got contact with her. I told her to move on its enough its been 1 year 2 months shd told me that she really want to leave this guy with me or without me. In other words if you want me back or not shes leaving him i told her do whatever suits you. I honestly stop think of her less and less and been healing more and more i feel a lot better than what i was 7 months ago.
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