Khalil Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 So my ex and I are back to talking, she is very against a relationship right now, but she tells me I should date other people and then gets really nosy when I dont tell her what I'm doing right away when I tell her I have to do something and then she gets defensive because she then thinks I'm going on a date or visiting another girl...she insists she isnt jealous but when someone asks about what you're doing and then gets defensive about it because they think you're doing something with someone else then they are jealous. She told me she doesnt feel right by calling me by my real name and seems to want to get back into the swing of calling me what she called me when we were in a relationship together. She and I hung out this morning and I saw her going through my phone. She says that she is unsure about a relationship between us, but cant seem to let it go when she has said over and over again that she just wants to be friends. Why is she doing all this? She says she misses what we had, and she misses me...but she doesnt want to be together right now nor does she want to be exclusive fwb...
DoF Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 We can't help you if you are not willing to help yourself. If you are still engaging with this woman, well, that means you have some REALLY deep issues of your own you need to deal with. Cause your past threads were just downright sad. But at the same time it does answer a lot of questions for us, you attract who you are. So who your girl is, is who you are. Not healthy, not healthy at all.
Movingforward3 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I understand why you are talking with her. But the hard reality is unless she saying she wants you back, she is just playing with you. I know it is hard to resist, but it is worse to be in contact with her.
kathy679 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Completely cUT her off let her be single. While you are hanging around her you will get hurt. I am in the same position as you right now and I've told him I can't see him. Maybe in the future she may want to start something but until she does put yourself first and don't hang around her
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