What are you thinking thread? round two, Part 4

[itsallgrand]

It's Valentine's day and I specifically wanted to come on the forum today to wish all the fine people here with great big hearts a Huge Happy Valentine!!

 

It's a kind of love here, helping other people, showing support, caring.

 

So I hope everyone here has a fantastic one no matter how you are spending it and with who.

[Capricorn3]

There are far too many people around me who have suddenly died and/or who are dying. Four people in two weeks is a bit much. Makes me feel very uneasy inside....

[SpottiOtti]

lol. Seriously?

 

Please don't spend too much time on it. You're creeping me out.

 

Ouch. It was just a random thought, really.

[Cheetarah]

Every time I go to the cemetery, I go to the children's section. I bring little toys and trinkets, and place them on stones where grass has grown over, or I chip off those covered with ice...And leave them a little something.

 

And I wonder why their graves look like that. I think about the parent(s) that had to bury those babies. I wonder, are they still local? Is the pain too much for them? Are they alive? Are they okay?

 

I can't imagine a deeper pain than that of losing a child. I naturally gravitate towards putting myself in their shoes and it is too much to even think about...Let alone live.

 

I don't know but I don't think your heart can ever really recover from that. I don't think it does. Life goes on because that's just what happens but I wonder...if the world stopped for them, then. And even if they live in our present if their minds are still back there with their babies.

[journeynow]

Every time I go to the cemetery, I go to the children's section. I bring little toys and trinkets, and place them on stones where grass has grown over, or I chip off those covered with ice...And leave them a little something.

 

Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you.

[Liefde]

Every time I go to the cemetery, I go to the children's section. I bring little toys and trinkets, and place them on stones where grass has grown over, or I chip off those covered with ice...And leave them a little something.

 

And I wonder why their graves look like that. I think about the parent(s) that had to bury those babies. I wonder, are they still local? Is the pain too much for them? Are they alive? Are they okay?

 

I can't imagine a deeper pain than that of losing a child. I naturally gravitate towards putting myself in their shoes and it is too much to even think about...Let alone live.

 

I don't know but I don't think your heart can ever really recover from that. I don't think it does. Life goes on because that's just what happens but I wonder...if the world stopped for them, then. And even if they live in our present if their minds are still back there with their babies.

 

 

[Cheetarah]

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I'm so sorry, Liefde. ((((Hugs))))

[ParisPaulette]

Meh, sometimes it feels good to write things down then delete them.

 

I won, that's all that matters, I won my life and I've won it back again and again. In the famous words of Archer the Spy, "F U World, F U"

[Coily]

Well trying on line dating again, why not new year new site. Engaged with one woman, just out of we kept looking at each other's profile. Attractive, so naturally I am wondering if she's a bot. Geez I am getting gun shy as i go along.

[Seraphim]

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I am so sorry sweetheart. ((((Hugs )))))

[Cheetarah]

I am going to hit on the valet guy to see if I'm right.

[Seraphim]

I don't get the super hero craze .

[Blue_Skirt]

Some threads are just funny.

[Capricorn3]

It really bugs me when jaded, bitter people take out their lousy moods on others and blame everyone else for their situation. Fed up with the way things are going, or not going? Change your attitude.

[itsallgrand]

I can't wait until this injury heals so I can go back to the gym. I get antsy without hard workouts.

[John John]

I can't wait until this injury heals so I can go back to the gym. I get antsy without hard workouts.

 

I know what you mean. Having surgery in a few weeks, and while I'll only be out of commission for like a week, not looking forward to it!

[saluk]

House. You be mine. Let me get INSIDE you.

[itsallgrand]

I know what you mean. Having surgery in a few weeks, and while I'll only be out of commission for like a week, not looking forward to it!

 

I hope your surgery goes well and you have a smooth recovery John !

[Liefde]

1 2 3 4 5 6.................!

Why..................?

[Coily]

Ah the irony. While talking to my father, who will always put caveats on how good things will come to a crashing end; who told me I dwell on the negative. Wonder where I picked up that habit.............

[Capttrae]

I'm headed offshore got a deck load of cargo, it 1:45am and I'm sitting. Here thinking of you. You won't ever know bc I won't say. But things are so easy w/ you it'd be so easy to just pick back up where we left off almost 2 years ago. If I did that I'd be getting you and Ry back but would loose Taylor and my dog that's one thing I can't do. I love that little girl like she's my own daughter and Coal has filled a void in my life left by Precious and Brown Dog and Shorty that I didn't really know was there until I went and picked Coal up. Plus I'd have to give up living in Ky. God knows I love living up there. Good friends, great huntin and its just home

[luminousone]

I hate these time changes

[Capricorn3]

Geez, all this time I thought it was a woman, and it turns out it's a guy. Yikes.

[ParisPaulette]

I thought over time my opinion of people in general would change, would get kinder. Apparently I was wrong. We are worse than we have ever been, more racist, more against the opposite gender, more angry, more violent, more stupid and definitely far, far more illiterate than we have ever been. Just more of the worst of humanity--even yes, and especially our elected leaders and so-called wannabe leaders as well, who have turned something that once made our country a halfway okay place to live into an all-out turf war that sends out the message that is is okay to induce violence, to encourage riots, to themselves talk about how they'd physically hurt each other.

 

Swear to god I'd be packing right now for another country if it weren't the fact I think I'd find the same or worse elsewhere. I feel so embarrassed right now that this is the world my sons have inherited.

 

Bah, I need to get offline, turn off all electronic media, and just go far far away from here. Going out to hang with the horses. They at least have some sanity and goodness.

[itsallgrand]

Enjoy your time with the horses , Paris.

 

I understand as election times lately have made me feel similar. Had to talk myself down and not think about it for a while. I had a rough bit there when our prime minister was elected. It was demoralizing, and still is for me.