LizardKing98 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I have been going steady with a girl for about two months now. we talked and had sex a month before dating. We have sex all the time ,we're very honesty to each other. We are both very comfortable around one another and are open about our past. We are both young I'm 18 and she's 17 but we both had to grow up pretty fast taking care of our siblings especially me since im the oldest and my parents aren't the most reliable. But I've only had been with one other girl before her, but she has been with 4 guys before me. I didn't really mind until she started telling me about them and it kind of upset me. She had a bf for almost 2 years and she told me when they broke up for 2 days she cheated on him with his best friend but got back with him and then after they really broke up a few days later she started a friends with benefits with the same best friend she cheated on her bf with. Until 3 months before she started dating me. He only used her for sex but she wanted a real relationship with him so she used sex to be with him but he got a gf and stopped talking to her and she was very upset he didnt choose her. She also had a guy friend who lived with her family and her and they had sex and a thing but he broke up with her too after like two weeks and then after he moved away to a whole new state they still message each other sometimes because they were friend. She does tell me this is most mature relationship she's ever had and that I'm the only guy who has ever made her cum and i can confirm she has. She enjoys and wants to have sex almost as much as i want to. Also She is awesome too shes a cute hippy with long legs and a nice body great smile and she has a great personality too. She also says I'm alot different than any other guy she has been with and she sees a future with me. We have even talked about her moving into my apartment with me in the future. I caught feelings for her and I don't want to lose her but I don't know if that'd be the best thing for me to do.
melancholy123 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 At your ages having sex with many people for varying amounts of time seems to be typical. She sure has gotten around. You need to decide if you can handle her actions. Tho if she cheats on you you need to call it quits. I think she's pretty immature, but that's what you get at her age. Go into this with your eyes open.
DoF Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Sharing past sexual experiences....getting around.....I just hope you are on the way to getting STD test ASAP.
HeartGoesOn Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I think there's the potential of history repeating itself here. Given her shady past, you not only have too much to lose, you're also risking your health by continuing with this relationship. At any rate, yes, I would let go while it's still early.
Dottieflanogon Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Some people change, some don't. Well personally I'd be worried because cheating is breaking trust,if she broke her ex's trust she could break yours...On the other hand, its a different story with everyone,If she told you about it maybe it means that she acknowledges her mistakes.Keep an eye open and watch out for red flags
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