What should I do?

[ksmoove2]

So I met this girl last year around this time and I was interested but things started off bad so we just decided to be friends. I've always had a crush on her and a couple days I told her how I felt and if our friendship can be more. She said , "I could see us dating but I like when guys are romantic and all that and I know ur not like that at all" I'm really not like that but I will do things like that for her to make her smile. She is a bit stubborn at times but I am willing to try it out at least. She also said she could never tell I liked her by the way I acted around her and I only do that because I didn't know how she felt and didn't want to make her uncomfortable. Should I go for it? Also what are some things I can do to be romantic and do things to get things rolling?

[sephire93]

2 big mistakes

be romantic only because she wants this? (is only a cute way to tell you that she isn't attracted by you)

you told her how you felt?

the 99% of people that do that, remain just friends.

 

so the best way is:

forget this girl.

 

Yes i know that now maybe you want only her, but react and meet other girls.

[Scoe141]

I agree with sephire. You haven't even been dating and things are already a mess (not to mention what transpired last year). It sounds like you two just aren't compatible. I'm sorry you're going through this, but it may be for the best. Relationships, ESPECIALLY at the beginning shouldn't be this much work.

 

Good luck.