ksmoove2 Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 So I met this girl last year around this time and I was interested but things started off bad so we just decided to be friends. I've always had a crush on her and a couple days I told her how I felt and if our friendship can be more. She said , "I could see us dating but I like when guys are romantic and all that and I know ur not like that at all" I'm really not like that but I will do things like that for her to make her smile. She is a bit stubborn at times but I am willing to try it out at least. She also said she could never tell I liked her by the way I acted around her and I only do that because I didn't know how she felt and didn't want to make her uncomfortable. Should I go for it? Also what are some things I can do to be romantic and do things to get things rolling?
Dottieflanogon Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 Well she already told you that she could see herself dating you. What you need to do is to take her somewhere nice and just tell her that you would like to be more than friends and you're willing to live up to her expectations as romantic partner. If she says she doesnt, its best to move on right then and there. Or you will trap yourself in a cycle of love and friendship. As for being romantic,You'll get the best results out of just being yourself and going from what you personally know and remember about what she would like. Do something out of the ordinary, especially if it's something creative that doesn't involve spending any money. We women love it when a guy can make the us appreciate simple things. eg Take her out for a romantic picnic at the beach or the park at dusk...buy or make some gourmet food, take candles and a blanket you can lie on and snuggle.Best of luck
Sportster2005 Posted November 8, 2015 Posted November 8, 2015 She gets the prize for mixed signals. I guess on optimist would think she's telling you how to approach it. A pessimist would say she's letting you down gently by saying she doesn't see you as romantic as an excuse. Can your friendship survive potential rejection and awkwardness. Are you prepared to hear about the guys she does date?
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