Is he interested in me as a girl or as a friend?

[adelinebrie]

This is about texting, the only way to communicate due to long distance and i love texting.

 

We were doing daily texting (talked about politics, gender, sex, past time, casual, called me baby, my dear, sexy), but it is decreasing now, but i read the pattern. I always text him first. If he answer my text super long, super kind, super sweet, gives lots of praise, he always said that he will busy or out of town and never online for days. I give him 1 or 2 messages (i told a story or give opinion about something i like, pretty different topics, not a question) in 1 or 2 days but no answer. When he back, he still not respond, then i sulk. After i sulk, he text me back, kind, sweet again. Then just before the busy time come again, his answers become super long, etc, etc.

 

The question, like any other boring question and may be i am asking with flatly tone, but i am desperate to know and really need your sight:

 

"Is he interested in me as a girl or as a friend?"

[adelinebrie]

i was sulking, protesting, telling that i will leave him alone but never do it. i am that kind of annoying girl, i think. he still willing to answer my text. But he never text me first -- from what i read anywhere, it is kind of main sign that a guy is really into a girl. But if i only his friend, why did he still answer my text. or he answer my text because he sees me as a friend?

[Sportster2005]

i was sulking, protesting, telling that i will leave him alone but never do it. i am that kind of annoying girl, i think. he still willing to answer my text. But he never text me first -- from what i read anywhere, it is kind of main sign that a guy is really into a girl. But if i only his friend, why did he still answer my text. or he answer my text because he sees me as a friend?

 

If he never initiates communication he's probably not interested.

[thatone]

Long distance is tough, I have little to no experience with it but as a 17 y/o guy i'd probably be straight up and ask something like "What do you think of us?" when the time is right.