Am i transgender?

[jasminelk90]

I am female but I do see myself as a female but ive always felt like i was missing something, a , im not sure how to explain it but maybe its like penis envy? but i want to have breasts but also a penis.

 

Most of the dreams where i am aware of my genitalia i see a penis

 

to masturbate i often fantasize i have a

 

but i do dress femininely and am most comfortable this way

 

i feel like ive never herd of anyone else like this or is this something everyone feels???

[mhowe]

I thought you were demisexual?

[jasminelk90]

yes i am, but i dont see how that is relevant...

[Liefde]

This quiz is specifically for biological females.

 

 

 

I don't know if it is any good!

[Tinydance]

Well, I think this is a very difficult question that unfortunately only you can answer. I'm not entirely sure if you're transgender because sexual identity and sexual orientation can be so diverse and so different for everyone and it may not mean the same thing for every person...For example, I'm pansexual (attracted to all genders), and like you I dress very femininely and I love being a woman and being very girly. However, in the past I used to be very curious about what it would be like to be guy, and at times wanted to be a guy. Sometimes I also thought I was gay, only attracted to women. Although both those things have changed and now I've realised I'm attracted to everyone and I also don't want to be a guy anymore. I think sometimes we can have dreams about something or sexually fantasise about something, but it's more just a sexual fantasy, rather than us necessarily wanting to change - e.g. for you to have surgery to get a penis. For example, I often fantasise about me becoming a prostitute or me being raped, but it's just sexual thoughts and me imagining those things. I don't want for those things to actually happen in real life. But above all, I think what you're saying is you're comfortable being a woman, being feminine and identifying with being a female. So in this sense I'm not sure if you'd be called transgender because to my understanding, someone who is transgender actually wants to BE and live their life as the opposite gender, whatever that means for them. It doesn't seem to me that you actually want to live life and identify as a male, it's just you want to have a penis. I think that's more an aspect of yourself and your body, rather than changing your gender. For example, a man may be comfortable in the body of a man and living as a male, but may enjoy wearing women's clothes and wishes he had big breasts, maybe wears bras and stuffs them (I'm actually describing a friend I have here). He doesn't actually want to be a woman, but just have some aspects of him that are like a woman. My ex-girlfriend dresses in male looking clothes and she said she'd wanted to cut off her breasts before and be flat chested like a guy. But yet she's very feminine in her personality and she still identifies with being a woman and wants to live as a woman. I guess these things can be very complicated and you may just need to examine what it is you really want and what you feel. I think my ex-girlfriend is demisexual too. Anyway, good luck with your discovery!