char1 Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 I am 6 weeks pregnant and my fiance left 4 weeks ago it was very sudden as we were close right up to the day he left.he says its over to my friend but somehow I don't believe him.he won't talk to me!but he hasn't barred me from his phone so he must be reading my messages etc, he wont aknowledge the pregnancy or discuss it what should I do?I love him and want him to come back but I do also want him to be happy with the decision I make.
melancholy123 Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 He can't ignore the baby once it's born, assuming you go aead and have it. He's legally obligated to support that child til age 18. Sounds like he's freaked out that you are pregnant. You need to think long and hard if you really want to be with a guy who would bail on you at this critical time in your life. If he takes off on you now he could do it again.
Knot2loud Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 This is what tics me off about some men... They get a girl knocked up and then they bail from the responsibility they helped create. Girl, if you're smart you'll not hesitate to think of what is best for you and your baby in the future - beginning now! This guy needs to take responsibility and if he isn't willing to do so then he must be forced to. If he has the audicty to bail from you when you need him the most, then you can gather up the courage to do what you must. You can be friendly, you can hope he comes back, you can do whatever you want, but you have a baby to think of too.
bulletproof Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 he says its over to my friend but somehow I don't believe him. What makes you not believe him? What led up to this breakup?
Dottieflanogon Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 First of all, I'm sorry about all this pain... but, congratulations.Do what you think is best for the baby. He is also responsible and although it may not be plan, this baby is innocent. I'm sure everything will be fine once the baby is born. Even if he doesn't come back to you, he will have to pay child support
youngman23 Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 I hate blokes that do this, i wouldnt dream of doing this to my girlfriend, but then i really want kids at the moment
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