Jetta Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 I have not been notified, he has. Dec 11th. Also he would rather refile a joint divorce, so we don't have to go to court and waste the attorney's time. I had to shut my phone off because of his continuous calls, even after I told him that is not something I could decide on my own. Oh btw if I attempted to return his call, he has some screening system set up, you leave a message than he calls back. I have e-mailed an attorney for legal advice in regards to my concerns.
ParisPaulette Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Stick with an attorney. He just wants you to drop an attorney, so your legal rights aren't protected. Plus that way you can't have an attorney act as a mediator. Nope, go through with the divorce Jetta and get him out of your life once and for all. No one is "wasting an attorney's time" when they are in the middle of a legal proceeding, it's what attorneys do. That's like saying you don't want to go to a hairdresser to fix the bad haircut you got, because you don't want to waste the hairdresser's time. I'm sorry you're going through this, but stick with the legal system to keep him in check.
Missed Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Only make contact to your ex through your legal side of things. Do not make any attempt to contact your ex via phone etc and yep block him any way you can. Good luck..
Jetta Posted November 6, 2015 Author Posted November 6, 2015 My level of anxiety is so high, I couldn't sleep, my heart rate is extremely high, I started a prescription last night, but that's going to take more than a day. He's up to no good and I feel it.
Jeffbobo Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 Your attorney is there to remove the emotional element from the equation. It took me a long time to cut my ex out from coming over to the house, stopping phone calls and stopping the insane texting. It took HER attorney to say ONLY communicate via email, which I told my ex long before that's what I wanted because she kept kicking the crap out of me. And it sucked because we have kids together and that was her in to continue to kick the crap out of me on topics unrelated to the kids. Sorry to digress there a bit but thank God for attorneys and email!
Jetta Posted November 7, 2015 Author Posted November 7, 2015 Your attorney is there to remove the emotional element from the equation. It took me a long time to cut my ex out from coming over to the house, stopping phone calls and stopping the insane texting. It took HER attorney to say ONLY communicate via email, which I told my ex long before that's what I wanted because she kept kicking the crap out of me. And it sucked because we have kids together and that was her in to continue to kick the crap out of me on topics unrelated to the kids. Sorry to digress there a bit but thank God for attorneys and email! I actually misspoke. He said judge, wants to avoid court. I recently found an attorney who said he would review all my docs. So I forwarded them to him. He'll let me know. Based on his history he really doesn't suggest the joint but if it's all the same maybe. My anxiety has reduced greatly already.
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