Complicated Relationship With Friend HELP!!!

[apgaithe]

So during an orientation this past summer I met this girl and we became very good friends. At the time we both were in long (2.5 years) relationships so we were strictly friends. When school started though we were talking it turned that both of us had broken up with our significant other. Over the next few weeks we became really close friends and we flirted and ate together and went to parties on the weekend together and so on. On her birthday me her and some other friends all got really drunk over at her place and her and I ended up sleeping together and the next day we didn't talk about it or anything. Then the day after that we slept together again at my place mostly sober and we again didn't ever really talk about it. At this point I'm starting to get some feelings for her. However, I know neither of us are really in a place to be dating after having just broken up with somebody you dated for over two years. After a week or two she gets asked out on a date by another guy and she goes and they have kind of a thing for a week before she ends it with him. Then about a week after that we end up sleeping together again once again mostly sober. Whenever we sleep together its not like some business transaction we kiss first for a long time and make out then afterwards theres usually lots of cuddling and she spends the night.

 

Now I have feelings for her, I'm extremely attracted to her and I don't know what to do or if she feels the same way. Advice please?

[Sportster2005]

If you can share each other's bodies you can share each other's feelings.

 

Simply ask her how she sees things. If she's not on the same page you, ouch, but at least you know. Either way move forward.