Moomoomike Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Hey guys, so today I found out that there is a small chance I may have cancer. Felt pretty terrible hearing that. So as promised to all my coworkers (job i don't wont anymore, left bc of ex) I posted in the shift swap group about my results (they asked me to update them as soon as I found out anything, so I did). Everyone is so receptive, but suddenly my ex posted "I'm very sorry to hear that, whatever it turns out to be, we will all be here for you." into that group. If you don't know my situation, read back to my post. Basically she left be bc the relationship wasn't right for her, and she can't commit. (We had a great thing going). So does this mean I failed at nc? Or did she? P.s. She is the one who wanted to be friends, I said I couldn't do that and asked her not to contact me unless it's to do with her reconsidering her choice.
Carolyn6579 Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 Sorry to hear that there could be a possibility and my prayers are with you...
alli Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 I think the general idea of no contact is to discontinue the emotional relationship to allow for healing. Also, sometimes people use whatever excuses they can to continue talking to their ex. I don't think this was the case. I think she's doing what any caring person would do. She may not want a relationship but that doesn't mean she wouldn't care if you had cancer. Don't read too much into it. Hoping for the best for you & you that get some good news soon.
Dottieflanogon Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 First I am very sorry for you.Stay positive. You are in my prayers. I hope for the best for you.BIG HUG As for your ex, she may just want to offer some level of emotional support and compassion
Liefde Posted October 31, 2015 Posted October 31, 2015 "I'm very sorry to hear that, whatever it turns out to be, we will all be here for you." She used the word WE! It pretty much tell me she is concerned in a general way if I can put it that way, not a personal one, she may have even felt pressured into posting a response, she is your ex, I won't read much into it if I were you. Sorry to hear about the cancer, hope for the best, big hugs!
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