Jtbsteelers7 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Hey I have been dating my lady for 8 months. In that short period of time we have been through quite a bit. She states she loves me and wants to someday be my wife. But her actions speak otherwise. We rarely communicate throughout the day and we see each other a couple times a week. We both have busy lives but I am more reluctant to take time for us. She is younger than I am and her relationship maturity is not where mine is. I find it funny sometimes that she always has time for social media etc but seems to be to.busy to text or maybe a call. I'm at wits end because I have mentioned it to many times and now I'm at the point to just leave it alone.
tattoobunnie Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Wait, you see eachother several times a week...um, did you need her to be your Siamese twin where you're attached at the hip?
jobelle Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 You should probably go with your gut instinct. If you feel that she's not as invested in the relationship as you are, you are probably right.
SpottiOtti Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 How often would you like to see her? One extra day? Weekends? Decide exactly what would make you feel more connected, and then share that with her in a non-accusatory way. If you don't communicate your needs to your partner, you can't blame them for not meeting your needs.
JustWishing Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 I would talk to her about it and ask her to see her more and also tell her you would like to be in contact more. See what she says...
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