lizardo55 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Hi.. I broke up with my ex a while ago.. I let him back into my life this summer.. he promised me he would wait until the end of time for me.. blah blah blah... I kept saying no and then very soon after he gets in another serious relationship. I know I don't want to be with him, but for some reason it's still been hard for me to move on completely. Some days I feel like I obsess over what he's up to... and I don't know why! anyway.. my ex and I were both very big into the music scene where we live. I saw him out this past weekend with his new gf.. it was fine.. I ran into them.. said hello and that was that. I keep finding out that they are coming to more shows that I'm going to. I know this is inevitable because we are both into the same things. I don't want to stop going. What advice does anyone have to approach this? Any similar circumstances for anyone? I think this weekend I handled it OK but thinking of future ones seem to bother me. I think the best approach would be to just go and have fun and not acknowledge that they are there.. although we do have mutual friends too. thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No1 Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 Spoiled milk doesn't get better if you put it back in the fridge. You throw it away and you get another one. You must remember that your X is an X for a reason. He didn't change or become this awesome boyfriend, he is the same guy that you broke up with. Now its her problem to deal with, not yours. I think that its not the boyfriend you miss, just miss being with someone when you go to these music events. If you had a BF you wouldn't be thinking of your X. I just think you miss the relationship not him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trust101 Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Think you answered your own question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizardo55 Posted October 15, 2015 Author Share Posted October 15, 2015 Spoiled milk doesn't get better if you put it back in the fridge. You throw it away and you get another one. You must remember that your X is an X for a reason. He didn't change or become this awesome boyfriend, he is the same guy that you broke up with. Now its her problem to deal with, not yours. I think that its not the boyfriend you miss, just miss being with someone when you go to these music events. If you had a BF you wouldn't be thinking of your X. I just think you miss the relationship not him. I think you are right. He treated me badly and disrespected me. I don't understand why it even bothers me. I guess if I continue to see them out, I'll hopefully get to a point where I don't care.. and you are right... not my problem any more. Sent from my SM-G920V using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
135stay Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I think the phase will pass, since you said you didn't want him back.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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