Mixed Signals

[GeorgiaGirrl]

Hi, I was hoping you guys could help me out with a minor or major issue-only the future can really tell what the final outcome will be. First, I would like to say that my ex-boyfriend has shown up without informing beforehand to my classes and my car in the past. I was dumped this same month last year and my ex, who is 40 years older than me, actually contacted me the other day. I'm almost 25 years old, btw. may not sound like a big deal but he was so mad at me last year that he threatened me so I wouldn't contact him again; I respected his wishes. On that note, my problem is the fact that in the first message he sent me on Facebook the other day, he was asking how I was doing-at midnight. The second message though, he said he was only interested in how my daughter is doing. What kind of game is he playing-that is, if he is playing one? Am I overreacting? I mean, he told me to never talk to him again but then, out of nowhere he reaches out to me. If he was really checking up on my little girl, wouldn't he have said that during the first message? It may sound silly but I would like answers from anyone who can help, especially players and experienced people.

[SooSad33]

40.. yrs older?? Wholay..

Well... to end up hearing from anyone months or more later, with something like a 'how are you'? means nothing.

 

They're just checking up on you. Bored, lonely.. something to that manner.

 

"I would like to say that my ex-boyfriend has shown up without informing beforehand to my classes and my car in the past"

- This alone is immature & pathetic. No respect for boundaries.

 

Pay NO attention to him. You two are done.. continue to IGNORE.

[melancholy123]

You actually need to ask about this? The guy is a creep! 40 yrs older is way too much older than you are. Block him every way you can, do not contact him, do not let him contact you.