knm5264 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and living together for 2. Emotionally, everything seems to be perfect. We rarely fight or argue, we go on dates all the time, and we still have that "new relationship" euphoric feeling. But for the past 2 months or so, my boyfriend's libido has really diminished. We have gone from sex almost everyday to me having to co hearse him into have sex even once a week. But my sex drive has increased! It's causing tension in our relationship. I know that he wants to want it and feels bad for not taking care of me sexually. As much as I want to be understanding, it is really starting to affect is. What can I do to help him? As anybody else been in this situation? Anything will help. Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 What has changed? His job? Family issues? Something triggered it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Has he been to a doctor? Medical problems need to be sorted out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rustysim Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 Has he been to a doctor? Medical problems need to be sorted out. I wouldn't jump at a medical cause. Most times it's psychological/arousal. Try being more spontaneous or something that's not usually in your normal intimacy like taking a bath together etc, putting your feet in his crotch etc. Sometimes guys need a physical break/rest too. I know I get sore down there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TMifune Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 Almost every day for three years? The guy's probably exhausted! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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