Madmaxina Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 So here's my delima folks. I have recently become involved in a relationship of sorts. Friends who have recently added sexual benefits to the mix. Both of us have stated we aren't looking for anything as far a serious relationship at least not anytime soon; however if fate presents itself I'm not going to turn a blind eye. Sex is phenomal. The friendship is great. However, he has been saying things that could be conceived as contradictory to what we both said. Calling me "his". I'm "perfect". (I playfully respond with you know it, or you're too kind) non-Chalant jokes about a relationship. "Jokingly" saying I should live with him (most of this is in texts so there's no verbal context to back it up an we all know how texting can go). Gets upset, almost jealous when I don't respond right away. I'm not in any way complaining, just simply wondering what an outside party thinks. Is it as obvious as it looks? So why the flip? Not that a relationship with this person would be bad, but I'm not about to set a good thing up to fail if leaning towards a relationship is what's really going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 After you both agreed you were not interested in anything serious, I wouldn't try to flip this around to be the beginning of a relationship. No offense intended, but this type of arrangement usually ends up leaving you empty handed. It is what it is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Movingforward3 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Hard to say. Need more background. How long were you friends prior to adding the benefits? Sex bring men closer to a lady. Do you do more than just have amazing sex? Like dates or things together outside bedroom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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