Krait Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Hey guys. Long story short. I was stupid and told a guy that I married and have kids. Probably to turn him off or something in the beginning. Now I think that he was really nice & sweet, and I desperately want to meet him again. What is the best way to handle this? How to tell him the truth without looking completely crazy. What should I say? P.S. I'm a girl and it's not my account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Using other people's accounts is not permitted. You will get your friend's account closed for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sargon Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 What is the best way to handle this? How to tell him the truth without looking completely crazy. What should I say? I don't see any way you can undo the damage caused by your big lie. Any guy would think that you're not.. emotionally grounded.. to come up with a story like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara-pezzini Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Imo you made your bed...... Do you get attention from that many guys that you don't even remember why you lied properly? To me there could be no redeeming reason that i would give you a chance again cause that's a big and weird lie, major flag early on if you look at it from his point of view Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krait Posted September 19, 2015 Author Share Posted September 19, 2015 I know it was stupid okay? And I know there is probably no chance he would forgive me for that, but I really want to try anyway. Could you please at least try to help me instead of judging my actions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greta96 Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Telling the truth is the best thing you can do at this point. Just talk to him and tell him that you know what you did was stupid, and even though it made sense to you at the time, you regret doing it, that you realized he was someone you would like to get to know better and ask if he can give you another chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara-pezzini Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Well there really isn't much help to offer. Turn it around for a minute, a guy you kinda like tells you he is married and has kids, then a while later he comes to you and says, well good news is i am single and like you too, i just lied back then to turn you off. How do you think that would go over? Only thing you can do is tell him the truth but chances are next to nothing that he will understand. For future references, if you don't like someone just tell them without such lies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamurj Posted September 19, 2015 Share Posted September 19, 2015 Multiple counts or sharing accounts is not allowed. Thread closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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