Tyez2016 Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 My girlfriend broke up with me this past Friday. She lives in England and I live in the USA. We really had an amazing relationship she even says we did. Well the breakup was somewhat abrupt, she was in the hospital for a couple of days so I contacted her bestfriend to see if she was ok and so forth. I know my gf hadn't told her best friend that we were dating, (I haven't told my friends either bc sometimes people think long distance relationships are dumb) well I accidentally let it slip that I was her boyfriend. Apparently her bestfriend was disappointed that my gf didn't tell her. Well she told my gf I had talked to her. My gf then said that was going behind her back and she can't trust me anymore, hence the breakup. We still talk everyday as friends and I still love her so much. She says she still has feelings for me but needs time. How much time should I give her, and how should I go about that? Let her bring up the scenario of us getting back together or should I just bring it up in a month or so? Advice is appreciated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottieflanogon Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 What you do is go complete and total No Contact. Tell her that Whilst she may feel unsure about your relationship right now, what you need to do is to distance yourself from her and give yourself time to heal.If she changes her mind,she knows where to find you. If you do this, it will save you a whole lot of trouble and heartache in the long run. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 This is a long distance relationship with two people who are keeping secrets from their friends about dating each other. I dont see any way this was going to work out for you two. What's with keeping the secret? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyez2016 Posted September 10, 2015 Author Share Posted September 10, 2015 We actually tell eachother everything, we've both gone through some tough times recently regarding hospitals. We've actually called twice since the breakup and will be facetiming soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whybeautiful Posted September 18, 2015 Share Posted September 18, 2015 Tyez2016, did she know it was an accident that you just let slip. I get why neither of you would want to tell your friends. You don't want anyone's negativity affecting what you two have... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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