vladimirzed Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 (sorry if it's too long) Hello everyone, my name is Vladimir and I am 15 years old. I am a typical alpha male, social and a very alone guy. I don't have any close friends to talk to about my stuff, then I saw this forum and I was wondering if there could be nice people here who can help me with my situation: Okay so, let me start with the past. About 6 months ago, this girl in my class had crush on me. It was obvious, she was flirting me by touching me and trying to get my attention. That's normal, right? Moving on, few months later she, after one day, out of nowhere, completely changed. She either started playing hard to get or just stopped losing interest in me when she found out I was interested in her(I flirted back with her a little to show interest because I really wanna date her, I mean I got nothing to lose and she seems to be perfect for me). But that's not the only thing, I texted her one day and she kept texting me back like she wasn't interested in me and like she didn't care what I was saying, but she did reply fast. Last time I texted her was about two weeks ago at a Friday night. Nowadays, I catch her staring at me in class, she doesn't flirt anymore with me, she's very nervous when I talk to her in real life(but I guess that's normal when a girl is crushing on a guy?). She isn't nervous when talking with other guys. She still acts like she doesn't care about me when I text her, for example she doesn't put many smileys and she uses shortcuts such as "K." etc. I'm very confused and have no idea what to do. It's not that I don't dare to ask her out or anything, it's just she's with her friends ALL the time. She has really close friends that she's with almost 24/7. What is wrong with her, like really? I don't like playing mind games, I just wanna know if she's interested or not. I'm gonna soon move on and forget about her if it keeps going like this. I MIGHT also soon just crush on another girl and make it obvious and then see how she reacts to that. Can someone give me advice? Should I do something or just move on? I never dated, kissed or hugged a girl in my life. I'm kinda alone and would love if you guys(and girls) could help me. Thanks! Kind Regards, Vladimir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoF Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 Get her out ALONE, one on one. Tell her you like her and you would like to take her out sometime. See how she reacts. Keep texting limited..... Good luck PS. Don't label yourself Alpha Male, to be honest, it's quite undesirable to be such person. Alpha males get all of the attention from women based on their social status and looks. That's the LAST thing you want when looking for a long term relationship. If you just want sex, that's a different story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 You are 15 she is 15, more or less. Teenagers of both sexes dont really know how to interact with the other sex, there's a lot of nervousness and shyness and insecurity, she may well have all 3 of these. Ask her out for a coffee or similar, see how that goes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pixels Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 1) the alpha/beta male is a fairy tale. Stop giving it credence. Humans just don't follow that sort of social order, as we see it in the animal kingdom... Those who associate closely with it are mostly just ***holes who think that getting women in bed and appearances are the only factor you should be measured by. The concept works for stacking up numbers of easily-fooled/misguided women, but in the end it's a losing game... 2) Stop playing stupid games. If you know she likes you, just get the courage to speak to her openly. KNOWING a girl likes you is a boon to most guys... Stop beating around the bush and just do something about it. Suck up your balls and ask to speak to her away from her friends. Yeah, she'll tell them, but what do you care? If you get rejected, fine, at least you handled the situation... This is probably short term anyways, so at the absolute worst all you're going to lose is a bit of humility for a year or two... More likely that most people wont give a about you and just take you at face value.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vladimirzed Posted September 3, 2015 Author Share Posted September 3, 2015 Thanks a lot guys for your help and advice! I will just ask her "Do you like me?" within 1-2 weeks and see how it goes. I might do it on phone to not make it any awkward. I'll keep you guys updated, I'll post again after I ask her that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vladimirzed Posted September 3, 2015 Author Share Posted September 3, 2015 Also, I was born like a typical alpha male. Those "jerks"(not actually jerks) girls like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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