i shouldn't even be looking for sympathy or kind words

[Allipie]

It's really my own fault that Im feeling this way and that things ended up the way that they did. Same guy, back and forth for months, me continually giving him chances and thinking things were going to change.

 

I finally stood up to him. All he did was delete my contact information and said there was no point in keeping it and talking since its all drama and a pain. It's fine, and it confirms what's been in the back of my head, and what others have continually told me on here. I'm hurting because things would have been so perfect if he had just talked things out with me rather than keep walking way, coming back, and expecting things to be fine without ever addressing anything.

 

To anyone in a situation where they go back and forth with a member of the opposite sex: just walk away. it's not worth it. Once they show you who they are, believe them. Nothing will change. If they're not willing to talk out problems, they're not worth being in your life. Successful and healthy relationships involve communication.

[melancholy123]

Wise words Allipie! The definition if insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.

 

Relationships are built on communication, trust, respect and many other things. You can't get by without them!

[Allipie]

Wise words Allipie! The definition if insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.

 

Relationships are built on communication, trust, respect and many other things. You can't get by without them!

 

exactly. it started out so great and completely tanked all because he doesn't know how to confront or deal with his emotions. It's easier for him to run away then come back and expect everything to be okay again. And you can only put in so much effort with someone. It's just not worth it to put yourself through all that emotional pain.