Will "No Contact" work in my situation??

[Jarlaxle]

So I've been "dating" this girl from August 1st. We had sex 2 times. We are in the same social circle. At first she was constantly reaching out to me with calls, messages, facebook, etc. etc.

 

We hanged out all day and night with our friends and even after that we would just go out only 2 of us at night.

Now I've seem to developed some feelings and starting looking for her as well. Mostly for some 1on1 time.

 

At first everything was fine, but from 3-4 days she is saying I am kinda smothering her.

 

I last saw her the other day - we went on the beach during the day and at night we played pool at a local club.

 

Yesterday I asked her to come play backgammon(she loves it) and she replied yeah, cool I will stop by your office. I told her I wanted to come to my place (Imagine why ) She didn't wanted to and we got in a fight. I said something bad, you know how it is.

 

Now, today she is telling me she wants to protect her feelings or something about that bad thing I said and that I'm smothering her again . I asked her if she doesn't want to see me again and she replied "I never said that, everything we did was nice.Plus we are in one social circle and I don't want to threw that away"

 

Now I was confused and asked her "What about me and you seeing each other?"

She replied : " I already answered this question" (GO ING FIGURE WAS SHE TALKING ABOUT THE GROUP OF FRIENDS OR US!!!)

She then went swimming with her moms and said me have a nice day. And I just told her to call me when she wants to see me.

 

Will No Contact help in my situation? And if I should try it, what I do when friends or she call me just to hang out with the other guys? How to I act toward her? (Btw we kinda hide our "relationship" from others, but are constantly touching under the table and this kind of stuff).

 

P.S. She was here just for the summer and maybe will leave at 15th September or earlier, keep in mind for the No Contact.

 

Thanks in advance!

[LovelyDani87]

You should definitely let her initiate the next conversation or outing. You don't have to go NC unless you're completely just trying to move on and forget about her. If she texts you, reply back. If she has mentioned that you are smothering her then it's time to step back and let her come to you.

[Jarlaxle]

Yeah that's what I mean by No Contact ... Don't bother her until she initiates contact...