tobiasbeecher Posted August 5, 2015 Share Posted August 5, 2015 Hey. Its my first time with a girl, and i would love some advice on how much i should tell her without creeping her out. So i met a girl online a few months ago and online we have fallen quite in love. I finally moved to a place close to her (due school) and we met twice now.We had tons of fun, kissed, hugged and even had sex (first time 4 me). Now since we met she seems to have stepped back a few steps. She doesnt say i love you anymore and says she needs to meet me more before going into an relationship. (she just broke up). Now this is fine, i get it. However i have just fallen deeper in love. Should i continue telling her "i love you" even without getting it back? or let it wait? And other things, confessing to how much i like her and how i always think about her and miss her. Should i limit what i tell her? Might it get to much and she gets creeped out? Or is this only a good thing regardless even tho she might not feel as strongly (yet?). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted August 5, 2015 Share Posted August 5, 2015 No....hold back on the "I love your". What you got is a deep case of infatuation. Keep getting to know her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vastaux Posted August 5, 2015 Share Posted August 5, 2015 Sounds like it's going ok dude, don't make the fatal mistake of going too heavy too soon, take it slow and steady! Also, yea hold off on the I love yous for a while, those words won't do no good for someone who doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Wait a few weeks and see if the situation changes. It might just be your not the person she built you up to be in her head and that's ok! That's the risk you take with online dateing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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