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I left him, why am I struggling not to go back


InkedBrunette

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I left him... so why do I feel like he tore my heart out

 

58 years old, Doctor with a revoked license due to showing up to the er drunk, smoking pot with a 24 year old, hanging around 20 somethings... so I left.

 

I thought no contact would be easy... but it's killing me not to reach out to him. Ugg anyone else have this problem?!

 

I want to call him, I'm crying, I want to run back and basically say hey its okay, treat me like again, smoke pot, invite "shes just a friend" into your room and take photos of her ... all while telling me that you love me, you'll never leave me, and im your soul mate God... Im in so much pain im sick to my stomach and I regret leaving him now.. and I dont know why. Logically - this is for the best. Emotionally - Im dying

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Have you tried professional counselling? It could be that in reality, you are faced with abandonment issues stemming from childhood/ self-esteem issues having more to do with your past than with your present.

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