jstew2000 Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 I have been posting on here a couple times about my breakup. I blocked my ex on everything to do with social media. I hope I never have to see her again. The only problem is my brother is in a relationship with her best friend. I want to move on so bad, and I'm staying strong. I'm scared that through my brothers girlfriend I'll either a) have to see her again b) hear about what's going on with her c) somehow find out info about her that will open up the wound. I just wanted to see if anyone has any advice for me about this awkward situation... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Be happy for your brother. Hope for his happiness. And don't make this about you. Know that you are strong enough to take the situation as it comes. If an outing happens and you know your ex will be there, then just decline attending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 I'm scared that through my brothers girlfriend I'll either a) have to see her again b) hear about what's going on with her c) somehow find out info about her that will open up the wound. a) You can see your brother and his girlfriend one on one without all their friends. b) if she comes up, tell your brother and his girlfriend that you are trying to move on and appreciate if they wouldn't talk about her in your preference. c) don't fish for information and refer to point b. They won't let info slip if you asked them not to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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