tony85 Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Hi all, I'm in a stable 4 years R/S. We are both 27. We love each other and communicate well. We have great, amazing sex. Great bed chemistry. But I'm constantly with this feeling that no matter how much we make love, it's never enough!!! It's like I never f*** her enough. No matter how many orgasms she has, how many times we do it, how many positions, places we do it, I'm never satisfied. I have this frustration, even inner anger sometimes. She knows that I feel this way and tells me I shouldn't, that I please her tremendously. What's wrong with me?? Why do I feel this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 What do you mean it is never enough? You still feel empty?? It isn't sex...it is intimacy. The feeling of connectedness...with or without the act of sex. What is your relationship like OUTSIDE the bedroom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 If you guys are having sex at least once a day, that sounds great. Ultimately though, you have bills to pay, things to do, food to eat, and you can't spend all day in bed having sex. You have to go to work once in a while too. how are other aspects of your life? has it always been like that or is this a new feeling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tony85 Posted March 23, 2014 Author Share Posted March 23, 2014 If you guys are having sex at least once a day, that sounds great. Ultimately though, you have bills to pay, things to do, food to eat, and you can't spend all day in bed having sex. You have to go to work once in a while too. how are other aspects of your life? has it always been like that or is this a new feeling? We don't live together and we don't have sex everyday but we have like 3 or 4 times week. We have romantinc weekends very often. Yes it's been like this since the beggining. Although in the beggining we would litteraly spend afternoons or nights having sex, our sexual organs usually got numb. Now we don't do these crazy marathons. But everyone always tells me that she's a great catch so maybe it's pressure from my subconscience that I have to constantly show her my manhood? What do you mean it is never enough? You still feel empty?? It isn't sex...it is intimacy. The feeling of connectedness...with or without the act of sex. What is your relationship like OUTSIDE the bedroom? It's hard to explain, I don't feel empty, I feel I need to keep possessing her. It's like I have this addiction to her body, to her pheromones, to the connection we share, to her having pleasure. The only time where I'm satisfied is in the minutes after I orgasm. Other than that I have this feeling that I need to make love to her more and more, is not enough, I need to possess that body and soul, it can be so frustrating. I use making sex/love interchangeably btw. Sometimes we make love in more passionate way, others in more kincky way, but we always connect. Outside the bedroom we have a healthy R/S, we support each other, we go out, visit new places etc. Sometimes I think that this might have to do with self confidence issues of my own?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Yes...it is self confidence/del esteem issues on your part. Your gf likely has no desire to be possessed by you...and the connection OUT of bed is as important to the health of the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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