diamondhead Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Jeez. She is my neighbour. I just asked her straightforward "Maybe we can go out tonight". She looked so surprised! She never expected me to make the move, I guess. Well I don't think the reaction was so good, LOL, because she was looking at me like "I never thought this guy had so much guts!". She asked "Today?" "Just like that?" I said "yeah why not?" She said "Why don't we just begin with facebook"? And then she accepted my friend request. And that's it. So what do you guys think? LOL I know the reaction wasn't so good but I guess rejection is part of life. And even if we are talking on facebook, how the hell do I go about this? I am just not good at online stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 I'm not sure where the connection lies between being asked out on a date, and Facebook? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diamondhead Posted March 22, 2014 Author Share Posted March 22, 2014 LOL I know, I asked her out, but that's what she said. She said she wanted to connect through facebook first. She is not European, so maybe she didn't like the immediate approach. She is Arab. She looked as if she was surprised by me asking straight out. Of course she could not be interested in me at all. Could be... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oitnb Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Whether she is interested or not, congrats for getting the courage to ask her out! I'm happy for you. Is this the first time you've talked to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diamondhead Posted March 22, 2014 Author Share Posted March 22, 2014 No it's not the first time. Well we haven't had any long conversations but she knows that a person like me exists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ParisPaulette Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 She may just be being cautious too. The bottom line is she doesn't know you, but if she were completely uninterested she wouldn't have given you permission to Facebook friend her. She just wants to make sure you're on the up and up and to get to know you a bit better, nothing wrong there. So friend request her and see where it goes from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmarple Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 I think she was surprised and didn't know how to react. I agree with Paulette....talk to her on fb and see what happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glowguy Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Hey man props for asking her out. Neighbors can be awkward though so it's not always advisable to go down that route (just telling you from experience). It sounds like she gave you the brush off a bit but don't let it faze you. Just ask out a bunch more girls and you'll be in good shape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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