Tinkerbell1607309344 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 This guy I've been talking to online wants to date me and what not all the bull I don't believe. I used to send him nudes, he always wants face pics too. I gave him a fake name and place of living for safety. Now I made up and told him that I've been showing showing him pics of other girls and not me(Ps. He saw my pix I just wanted to get him off my back). He didn't believe it. I'm scared he will find me and do something even tho he has all the fake information about me, except my real picture. Help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Hope you learned your lesson, never send nudes ! report the guy , thats all i can say, you led the guy and now hes after the chase. He will stop iam sure once you ignore him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cryingalways Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Yeah why were you sending nude photos to someone?! I'm pretty sure he won't be able to find you from just body shots alone. But yeah don't do that again. I used to do some stuff I'm really not proud of involving nudity in a similar way and I get worried about the people I spoke to finding me. And they even knew ways to find out about me too. But it has been several years now and I have not heard anything luckily. But I certainly learned my lesson and would never ever do anything like I was doing then ever again. I have issues of feeling guilty about it still now too and my ex who was abusive used to use that guilt against me and put me down for what I did even though he knew I felt terrible about it anyway. It's a big bad world out there. Use your brain and learn, move on and forgive yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 With all of the modern technology out there, there's always the possibility you can be traced on the internet. Unfortunately, when you play with fire, there's a high probability of getting burned. Either way, why haven't you blocked him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tinkerbell1607309344 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Share Posted March 22, 2014 He doesn't have my face and body in the same pic. Only head shots and body parts separated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrin83 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Images taken with modern cameras have EXIF data attached to them. This data can contain geographical coordinates for where the picture is taken. Did you take them with a camera, or a webcam? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tinkerbell1607309344 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Share Posted March 22, 2014 Camera, but my geocoordinates are turned off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrin83 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 You should be safe then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cryingalways Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Blumin ek. Geo coordinates? I had no idea! Well no ones come to get me yet and it's been four years since "the incidents" so I think I'm safe. But yeah this guy will think if you like him enough to send him these pics maybe you will do more etc. I'm sure he'll just go away in time if you ignore him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 This is the risk you took. As far as damage control just block him and then it's a waiting game. He probably doesn't have enough information to find you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonewing Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 It always astounds me how little it takes to get a girl to send nudies of herself... Greatest tip ever: if the nudies don't exist, they can't get sent out...so stop taking them! A true story, there's this guy I know who once showed me a picture of his girl and said that's what I'm getting tonight!" Only it was a picture of just her boobs. He's now married to her and I've met her a couple of times, and she's a really nice girl, but even so, when I see her, I see her boobs too. Don't give out pictures of yourself nude. To ANYBODY!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snny Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Hope you learned your lesson, never send nudes ! report the guy , thats all i can say, you led the guy and now hes after the chase. He will stop iam sure once you ignore him. Report him for...? Police will not do anything unless he starts making a certain number of threats or actually shows up at her door. She should just block him. I had a guy who I met through an online game stalked me at a convention (most of the people on the server were apart of an online community, so it was fairly easy to track which conventions I attended). He was interested, I wasn't and had a boyfriend. He didn't take it well and it wasn't enough to stop him. He bought a plane ticket and flew down to come meet me in person at a local convention. Security got involved, but I ended up leaving early in fear for my safety. After the convention He and his trashy friends tried to hack my computer/cyber bully me. This is why I now play a male character on online game so I wouldn't be harassed, bothered, or asked out by male players- all because one guy took it way too far. Online guys are creepy, OP. Stay away from them. Don't send strangers naked pics of yourself. Stay classy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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