girlfriend being shady and won't unfriendly ex it's

[Angel Carbajal]

There's a lot I could say but I'll just touch on what's hhe past couple days. On saint Patrick's is day my girl gets out of school at 8:30pm and ask if it's cool if she go's home early because she was so exhausted and tired. I decided around 9:30 to drive over there and surprise her with some candy and a flower. I texted "guess who's in the neighborhood, I'm gonna come knoooooock on your dooooor" lol

 

Well long story short her cars not there and no one is answering the door and she doesn't answer my 3 phone calls. I wait around for an hour calling friends because the seemed very grommet, not to mention the last text she stopped responding to was the one where I was in the area. She calls the next morning and says she spent another hour and a half at school and went to the gym for 3 hours after and finally got home and went to sleep never checking her phone. I knew she was full of and yesterday she denied denied denied. Until this morning her phone alarm was going off so I slide the phone to turn it off and she has a phone lock for the first time in 3 years.. she tells me some story I don't buy. I get bold and I teller to let me see her messages, nothing was there.. as expected, however there was about ten messages with her mom all time stamped in the times she was M I A the day I went over to her house. I say is this, "I didn't check my phone, you ing liar" she finally says okay I was at a pub with her of a friend Monica and that was it.

 

She only told me anything because I figured it out. Now today I realized she readded all of her ex boyfriends and guys who flirt with her, and wouldn't put our relationship status on public on Facebook. I told her that I just felt.very disrespected that you're being friends with your ex's who still call her up and call her sweetie and hun and like that. I told her she needed to UN add them or leave me because I'm not gonna tolerate it.

 

She responded "I don't know what to say"

 

 

I said "not knowing what to say says it all, it's simple it's either me or these guys who still want to you"

 

 

She replied "can we still be friends"

I told her you'd rather choose them over me? you.

 

It turns into talking until finally I step back and say "Mayra, I'll always love you and I hope things work out for you the way you hope it will.."

 

I stopped responding and she flooded my phone "babe don't trip on this Facebook bull " "babe please you're over reacting " you you ing piece of respond" "hello hello" "if you don't respond we will be done forever" "I love you so much and I want to spend all my time with you" "fine then don't ever ing call me or talk to me again, blocked"

 

And she blocked me never saying she would stop doing the one thing I asked. I don't really want advice, I'm more or less venting, but what would some of you guys think or do if you were in my shoes?

[mhowe]

She is cheating and lying.

Block her and walk away from her immature butt.

[Kendahke]

the same conclusion you came to, but you didn't need us to tell you that, did you?

[milly007]

OP, you did the right thing. She wasn't being honest with you. Plus, the fact that she wasn't willing to let go of her exes to make you happy is unusual. Time to move on.

[Iggles]

OP, you dodged a bullet! She has proven herself to be a liar and untrustworthy.

 

You absolutely made the right call by walking away. It sounds like she cheated on you and was upset that you actually called her out on her shady behavior.