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Confused by this guy from work: why does he act this way,was this a date ?


Charlotte Heim

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I met a guy at work 3 weeks ago, we go along well, talk a lot, have lunch etc together. We'll only work together for the next 4 months so no need for "don't date where you work" advices...

He is often flirty, he hints compliments etc...

Today he suggested we go having dinner in town together after work, which we did. He took me to a place he knew, it was nice, we stayed 2-3 hours or so, he payed but we agreed i'd pay him back after and he didn't reject it.

After that he wanted to go on a walk, he wanted to take me to a nearby beautiful park, but it was closed so we ended up walking around. He was walking very closed to me at some point, i could feel a slight tension, hard to describe, nothing happened and i was tired and felt like going back home so he took me to the underground (after having walked 45min or so), he had these soft eyes when he said bye, he looked hesitating, he looked deeply into my eyes, silently for a few seconds before saying bye.

After he sent me a text saying "thank you for this evening".

 

Does it look like he likes me? When guys send you a thank you text after hanging out with you, doesn't mean it was kind of a date?

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It sounds like a date but since you do socialise at work (have lunch together, etc), it could just be a colleague asking another colleague to have dinner together after work. For example, the fact that he agreed that you'd pay him back later makes me think 'colleague'. Hard to tell.

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It does sound like a date... but if you aren't sure, next time ask. He says "you wanna get dinner?", ask "you mean like as a date?" There's no harm asking for clarification if you're confused or unsure -- and it's better than jumping to the wrong conclusion.

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