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Friends and just be cool with it and continue my own path


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I had intentions of getting back with my ex, but she has not change a bit, actually just got worse. She is now smoking cigs and I believe pot once in a while, she drinks wine daily. I wanted to get back for the family. But I see now that it would just be a nightmare of slavery picking up after her and the kids. I love the kids, I have 3 awesome boys. One called me yesterday and asked me to be friends with mom so that we can see you more often, So the advice I am asking is if I should just be friends with her and move on with my life, be there for the boys. I still have feeling for her and probably always will, but it wont work unless she shapes up. We are in our 40's.

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You can -- and imo should be -- great friends and co-parents for the sake of your awesome kids.

 

The romantic relationship is secondary to the amazing relationship you have with your sons. You're their dad -- and that trumps everything you have with all wives and girlfriends.

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