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Is this possibly terrible news or good news?


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Long story short, 5 months post break up, 3 months NC. She broke up with me. I want her back. We have mutual friends who we both see a lot but not at the same time (I no longer open up to them about how I'm feeling). After a group of us met up a few weeks ago she told our mutual female friend when asked that 'she wouldn't mind being in the same place as me'. How would you take this and what would you do? Does this say to you she really just doesn't care at all anymore? Or that she might be having second thoughts and wants to investigate them? If not either of those, then what? She hates awkward situations so this came as a surprise to me. It's a big group of friends who we both only sometimes see so I don't think it's because it's restricting us. Also, would you advise me on agreeing to be in the same place?

 

Thanks, Mitchell.

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It's so difficult to not look for that "in" to restart a relationship. When we are still grieving the loss, it's hard not to see anything and everything as a "sign". It would be the safest thing to take it all at face value. Don't put emotion into that at all. I believe that was only meant to say she's moved on enough for it not to feel awkward to her.

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