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Peter SC

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I cannot date my support worker. She's not allowed to and even if she was not employed by the company that helps me, she said she wouldn't date me anyway. Just recently, I found out from talking to her one night that she started doing key working duties for other people, but I don't seem to get shifts with her these days. She's still my key worker, though.

 

Anyway, I hate her bosses (the seniors) because they took a woman off my team before and they don't allow pets, or escorts on the premises. And I cannot get a girlfriend. That worries and bugs me too. So now I'm considering moving to a flat that has central heating so I may finally get a good soak and then have an exile from other activities until my confidence comes back.

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Agree with the above, she has clearly stated that she has no interest in dating you even if it wasn't for her job. You may be left thinking that you asking her out can only leave her feeling flattered, but this may not be the case. She is most likely extremely uncomfortable with you now that you see her as more than a support worker. You need someone who you do see as a support worker, in order for them to do their job. If you develop feelings for them then the role of support worker is no longer professional and becomes very personal in a sometimes uncomfortable way.

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The thing is, I already know I cannot be with her. But it annoys me and so I actually would rather move on, to run away. My disability hinders me from being with others and like I told you, her bosses won't reinstate Joanna again. I'll end up messing things up with Sara too. I tried to email her to say I was giving up my support, but it never reached her inbox. I'm just tired of being alone and rejected. This is why I'm on the verge of calling it quits. I also tried to join some crappy Meetup group and was declined. I to this day don't know why I got the boot. I just didn't know what to put on the form when I was signing up. So the cow in charge blocked me. That's why I hate her. She sucks.

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