Add him? But should a girl...?

[speak]

Okay, ya'll. I need some advice.

 

I work in retail and there is a guy that has been coming to my job since around November. I never really thought much of him until recently. I'd say a week or two ago. He started being super nice and sweet on me. Always smiling and even fidgeting a bit when getting his money to pay me. He typically comes in on weekdays and is in his uniform. A little over a week ago I was going to clean the mens room and he walked out. It totally took me by surprise because I wasn't expecting him as well as he was dressed REALLY sharp. Khakis and a nice button up. He is just really sweet but when he says little sweet things to me I tighten up because I am so nervous! Anyhow, I have not seen him since last week and it kind of scares me. However. The last time I rang him up I scanned his reward card and when I do that, a name prints on the receipt. So, I found him on Facebook. It looks like he doesn't get on there a lot and I really want to send a friend request but I DO NOT want to scare him. I also know that it's not (from what people tell me) good for a girl to make the first move. What do I do? Should I send him a request to be friends?

 

Thanks for any advice.

[Minilogue]

If you like him, why not add him. It's just facebook your not asking him to marry you . I'm pretty sure he will know your interested in him if you do add him and it will flow from there.

[speak]

I am just afraid to scare him. Like, the fact that I found him on FB. Does that seem stalkerish?

[memento]

I say you wait until you see him again if you have 0 mutual friends. Then ask him about facebook.

[Doc Blaze]

add him...what is there to lose...