itsallgrand Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 I didn't think it was harsh because when you get with someone, you take them as they are. Or you can not take them. But getting upset and making an issue out of what you know that person is like/about, when you have stayed and are claiming to accept that person, is false IMO and not cool. I am into romantic gestures, for the record. I like the sweet little things. But when I was in a previous relationship, where he did not value V day (or even Christmas!), I did not throw a fit nor make him feel bad and force it on him. I decided I wanted to be with him, so that was how it would go. Romance came in other forms with him. My point is, three years in, it's time to adjust expectations or decide "ok, this guy isn't for me". Link to comment
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