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He asked for space again, and I'm crushed.


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Me and this guy been dating on and off for 5 months . We actually broke-up 3 weeks ago and got back together Sunday. We spent the day together and had sex. That was our first sexual encounter. Now I'm not really good at sex, horrible at it lol. I asked him did he like it he said it was just okay. I was fine with that. And I asked him the status of our relationship. He said we can continue but I have to learn how to start moving in bed.

 

I asked was he going to see other people he said he met someone yesterday. I got very upset and asked him why. He said sex with me is boring and he used to something different. I got madder so I said you're just gonna end our relationship based off sex? Something that with a little time can be fixed? He then said we should just be friends then he said he doesn't know what he wants because we did have a good night together but sex is boring. So he asked for time for himself/ space and will call when he's ready.

 

 

I'm so crushed I thought we were heading in the right direction.

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So he asked for time for himself/ space and will call when he's ready.
And you should give him all the time and space he wants... forever. Lose his number. What an arse. You are right, with some time you would have gotten into a better groove as you practiced more. The fact that he wants a freakin' porn star from the jump, you don't need him. I hope your next guy isn't such a tool.
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Are you serious? Wow....this guy is a D bag! Please do not subject yourself to this!! Do not let HIM dictate this relationship based on your sexual performance. Don't you think you deserve better??

 

I would not be his friend or talk to him ever again. . He is definitely a D BAG

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yeah, I wouldnt even bother with this guy. If he was not willing to teach you or tell you how it can be better then he is not willing to do anything for you. If he was really into you, no pun intended...okay pun intended, he should of least told you how to move or what can be done better especially if you are in expirienced.

This guy is really not worth your time, effort or energy. So if he ever calls.. simply ignore him.

Now you asked if a relationship can be based on sex? Oh heck yeah!!! This might upset people but if the sex is good then your tolorance level increases. You can handle more of their BS if the sex is that good. Same thing with looks, if the girl is HOT then the tolorance level moves up. Is it shallow? Yes, but Im being honest and it is a reality.

If you really want to learn about sex, there are plenty books you can read or you can simply watch porn to learn. If you dont want to do either, then you can wait for a guy willing to make sex exciting.

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I asked him did he like it... I asked him the status of our relationship....I asked was he going to see other people....I got very upset and asked him why...He then said we should just be friends... So he asked for time for himself/ space and will call when he's ready

 

Wow you sound insecure. Maybe I'm missing a back story but this guy doesn't sounds like as much of a douche as everyone is making him out to be. I definitely think you should let this guy go, but you kept badgering him for an answer and he told you.

 

I think you need to work on your self-esteem and stop seeking validation.

 

And if you're really bad at sex, I'd say it was time you got better. Although I'd be interested to know why you're bad at sex.

 

Not enough incentive? Not interested in your own pleasure? Not interested in the other person's? Not enough experience? Seriously, why?

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What a classless rude idiot! May I ask, why are you sticking around? Guys like him should be ignored and blocked, not given even more sex!

If he really didn't enjoy the sex with you, he wouldn't have come back for another round, he would have stuck with his own hand! He is an emotionally abusive jerk who is just playing you, so he gets to screw you and who knows how many others. Why are you letting him do this to you?

To him, it's entertaining, he gets to have sex with many women at the same time. To you, it is going to make you lose every ounce of self esteem, faith in yourself, probably forever. Look at how you're feeling now, you really think there is something wrong with *you*, when I can guarantee there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, but everything wrong with him!

 

Do yourself a huge favor and tell him where to go. Then block him and never, ever reply to any of his attempts to contact you. Do it before it's too late, so you can work on healing your self image and get ready for a normal relationship with a guy who won't put you down just because he wants to control and emotionally abuse you!

 

OMG why do idiots like him exist? And why do women give them chance after chance???

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