Sportster2005 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 OMG how can something this simple become so complicated and controversial. Sometimes I'm surprised our species still procreates, and doesn't become extinct. It's Valentine's day. A simple playful day. Why the stress. If you're dating someone get them a card or sumthin. It's not a wedding proposal. There's no need to agonize. No need to analyze. My question however is, what should I get my web browser for Valentine's day? Link to comment
person100 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Miss Marple...you're such a kill joy... She's talking to him every day for 6 weeks...i doubt he's dating anyone else. Gol dang i hate today's dating 'rules'.... Realitynut, I wish this was true! As much as I completely agree with you, he could totally be dating other people. My boyfriend and I were seeing each other for two months before we made it official - we talked every day, saw one another once or twice a week, I really thought he was only seeing me. Than, he dropped the bombshell that he had been juggling 4 other girls during that entire time. He ended things w/ them once we became a couple, but I was completely floored when he told me. I don't know how he had the energy for it!! OP, I personally wouldn't buy him much for Valentines day if I wasn't in a relationship with the guy...but that's just me. I'd wait for some sign that he was interested in spending the day with me, etc. Has this guy indicated he'd like to spend the day with you? Or was your post more of a "hypothetical" question. Link to comment
Realitynut Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 ah...yes...sigh. That is todays world i guess. Well, MissMarple, when ever i dated a guy when i was 25 and we knew we liked each other...after one date...and we kissed...lol...i said he was my boyfriend and we went from there. If and when he/me wanted to see anyone else....we broke up! I did juggle a few guys one time...but i figured i was 'cheating' on the main one!!! I just do whatever i damn well please. If i want to give him a card and some candy and a few extra smooches...I will! Link to comment
Realitynut Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Than, he dropped the bombshell that he had been juggling 4 other girls during that entire time. I was completely floored when he told me. That's why it doesn't make it 'right'.....IMO....but then again I'm VERY OLD SCHOOL! I remember in highschool, and after...anyone who was dating 'around' was called a 'player'. My son who is 27 has NEVER, EVER seen more than one girl at a time....and for long periods. I'm lucky if i can find ONE guy go date, and not multiples. Oh yes...i remember when i was young...the one time i sorta was seeing 3 guys...and it was at valentines day. Seeing...less than a month. All three bought me a box of candy. I went with the new guy who bought me the best box of chocolates! Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 OMG how can something this simple become so complicated and controversial. Sometimes I'm surprised our species still procreates, and doesn't become extinct. It's Valentine's day. A simple playful day. Why the stress. If you're dating someone get them a card or sumthin. It's not a wedding proposal. There's no need to agonize. No need to analyze. My question however is, what should I get my web browser for Valentine's day? Well, there is still liquor and being blinded by lust....so we will keep on procreating and breeding. I know...I can't believe how seriously some people take V Day. You know, single or with someone, dating or in a relationship, I never felt pressure to do s/t. You do what you want. It's not complex. Link to comment
Realitynut Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Well, there is still liquor and being blinded by lust... oooooooh....I can't wait! Hope it happens SOON! Link to comment
fifregister Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Well this is the one day where men feel inadequate and women feel competitive to demonstrate who is more deserving of love & devotion as expressed by ridiculous teddy bears and obscene heart-shaped candy boxes, and wilting flowers. Guys, no matter what you do, it won't be good enough. Ladies, no matter what you receive, it will pale in comparison to the grandiose gestures that Prince Charming in your head performs. ...Now....WHERE'S MY FKING FLOWERS, CHOCCIES, AND TEDDIES??? Just kidding. Link to comment
Realitynut Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 hahahaha...i went to my 85 yr. old friends house and watched the Olympics. And i ate about 25 Hershey kisses!! Link to comment
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