resisting the urge to contact.

[venus1173]

Me and this guy were dating for 4 months and it was going well until about a month ago. I started picking fight for no reason and accusing him of wanting other women. One night he told me he was done and that I was too much drama for him and that was that. He told me that I gotta find what makes me happy because I didnt want to be happy.

 

I now realized that yes, it was my fault because I pushed him away. I broke 2 weeks of NC and apologized for my part. He said "thanks". A part of me wants to text back saying no problem. I'm trying to resist the urge because I don't want to get my hopes up.

[mhowe]

You should have no hopes...

You were at fault...you apologized.

He accepted the.apology with the "thanks".

He did not leave the door open for further dialogue or dating.

[toby4]

Just step back and look at what reality is screaming at you, it's over and I'm sorry...

[Circe]

Yup. He did not leave the door open - he could have, he didn't. If you text back "no problem" in these circumstances.. honestly it'd be a bit weird. It would be totally unnecessary and isn't going to prompt him to text you again.