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Ex just randomly texted me


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My ex who I haven't talked to since maybe end of July texted me randomly just "hey". I had her # deleted on my phone so I asked who it was and she told me. Then we just had a brief conversation catching up and now she hasnt responded to my last text in a while so maybe she had a change of heart or went to bed or whatever.

 

After this long of no contact that type of text would indicate she might be interested again right?

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I texted her to see how she was doing a month after we broke up. She responded. I tried twice more later on and she ignored me both times and never texted me back. So I deleted her # then l. The last time I tried had to be like 4 months ago at least.

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No, it doesn't mean a thing. She could have just been bored. In the past I have done this to exes as a dumper -- doesn't mean I was reconsidering. When they did respond, I usually lost interest shortly after.

 

Next time I would make her actually send something of substances. Breaking No Contact for a "hey" is pretty damn lame. A month or so ago I got a text from a random number that I guess I had deleted saying "hey, remember me? We used to hook-up." I was curious, but I figured if the person was serious, they'd reveal themselves. So I ignored it. The same number sent me a text a day later saying "This is Shane Falco, right?" I still didn't say a thing, I figured if it was important they'd tell me their name or call me. They didn't. I would suggest you take this approach next time.

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This girl is trouble. Or was trouble. If you go back to my threads from May or so, we had a long kind of crazy break up. We both had some stuff going on in our lives at the time though. We were both really stressed with other things going on and it wasn't a good combination. I ended up talking to her some more via text tonight and she asked me about the bar exam and if I passed and then was excited when I told her I did. I told her that it was a relief because I probably wasn't very fun to be around while studying for it and she responded "no I completely understood". So I still can't really tell what she wants

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As mentioned before she probably wants nothing from you. In my honest opinion she was just checking to see if you are still around or something.

 

Same thing happened to me from me on may, I think it was. I replied "Im fine and you ?" and when she responded and wanted to keep our conversation going, I never replied.

 

I would suggest you to do the same thing.

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Well it was a weekend long bachelor party. We were just at the casino when this went down and I was already done gambling. It really just threw me off. She was my first real serious gf so she always had a special place to me.

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