dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 Hey all hope all is well I've had a pretty rough time since the last time I posted and wonder if anyone can help me with some insight Me and my ex started to get back intouch over Christmas spending a lot more time together and sleeping together ( calling me her soul mate ) till one night where she went out and met up with some ppl I know ( and funnily enough a person who accused me with trying to get with his ex )and some pics got put up on fb on fb of my ex and this dude gettin all close which made me jealous I didn't like and acted like a my bad .. Since then she has told she is seeing someone , is the happiest she has ever been and taking things slow Wasn't really happy with it but didn't pester her told her how I felt etc but that was it kinda left on good terms and stuff I decided to go nc on her and within that time her friends tried gettin in touch with me daily by text even though they didn't have my number and also her sister knocking at my door asking if I was in .. I replied to all saying am busy and couldn't help them then she text asking the same favour Now I dint know how to take or make out of all if this so was wondering for any kind if feedback to what's going on Thanks in advance Link to comment
Kendahke Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 Stick with NC and tell her and her friends to stop bothering you. What's going on is the classic case of "wanting what you can't have". When she could have had you, she didn't want you. Now that you've gone NC on her, she can't have your attention, so she's trying to get it any way she can using whoever will let themselves be used in the process. Stay the course. It's too much drama. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 Thanks for the reply is she trying to make me jealous though to drive me away or to reel me back in do you think ? Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 If she is game playing...who cares?! Leave her alone. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 True mhowe a shouldn't be dragged into it ... But I still love her a lot Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 It will pass. Mature adults do not resort to such childishness. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 So nc and she ll come running ? Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 Nope. NC and you will stop thinking about her coming running because you are busy with your own life. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 No problem .... What do you make of the soulmate thing ? Do people just say stuff like this for the sake or ? Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 I think it is absurd....and generally the sign of a young love. You will love many people in your life...and realize that your first love was but the first rung on the ladder. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 Well am 32 she is 24 and she has been in numerous long term relationships and so have I ?!?! So u think there is no substance to it Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 2, 2014 Share Posted February 2, 2014 Nope. I think that the notion that in this entire planet there is one person for you is nonsensical. Link to comment
dynamtiz Posted February 2, 2014 Author Share Posted February 2, 2014 I kinda agree ... See thing is she we re around each other there is no bad times it's alleays good feelings but a lot of ppl always tend to get it the way her exs and and ppl that genuinely dint like me ... She is childish and very easily influenced Link to comment
Kendahke Posted February 3, 2014 Share Posted February 3, 2014 I kinda agree ... See thing is she we re around each other there is no bad times it's alleays good feelings but a lot of ppl always tend to get it the way her exs and and ppl that genuinely dint like me ... She is childish and very easily influenced the problem with her is when she's not around you... she allows others to interfere. There will be no good feelings left if you allow yourself to continue on with someone who does this. If she hasn't put consideration for you before ex's, then your'e not that important to her... if you were, even out of her line of sight, she would open up a can of "act right" and not let ex's and other people gain such a foothold. continue with NC and tell her and her friends to stop pestering you. Find a mature woman who doesn't have to draw her friends and ex's in to interfere in your relationship. Link to comment
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