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So me and this guy were kinda of dating we were bf and gf in the past now we are kinda of dating now so I know for a while that he look at naked pics of girl on online like on porn website then I found out he go on Craigslist and look I don't know it just scared me cuz they are real people on there that want to hook up he say he just look at pics not there to do anything .i feel like in not good enough for him if you know what I mean I know it normal for guys to look but he got me why he need to look I don't know I told how I feel but I don't know I sill don't like it

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So...what are you guys doing? Are you broken up and is he now stringing you along and just "dating" so he doesn't have to be attached. You are not weird for having a problem with this - people who just look at craigslist often eventually respond to ads. Women on porn sites are real too, but they are not readily accessible. I think that if you have a problem with this, you should not be together. But I might address this first and tell him that you are not comfortable with him looking at craigslist ads for women that when you are dating someone, you don't think its right for you to be checking out dating sites and porn sites for guys and expect the same in a partner. See what he says. If he sees your point, that's one thing, but if he tells you "we are not in a relationship so i can do what i want" then you guys are just not compatible.

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So me and this guy were kinda of dating we were bf and gf in the past now we are kinda of dating now so I know for a while that he look at naked pics of girl on online like on porn website then I found out he go on Craigslist and look I don't know it just scared me cuz they are real people on there that want to hook up he say he just look at pics not there to do anything .i feel like in not good enough for him if you know what I mean I know it normal for guys to look but he got me why he need to look I don't know I told how I feel but I don't know I sill don't like it

 

You have an involvement, not a relationship.

 

Until he has made a clear declaration to you that he is without a doubt in a relationship with you and is committed to you, then he is just dating you and as such, he can do whatever he likes. How you feel about it right now really doesn't enter into anything. He's not serious about you at this point.

 

If you dont' feel you're good enough, then bounce and go work on your feelings of self worth. Frankly, this guy isn't the guy to be spending those kinds of feelings on. In his mind, he's single and free to look at whomever he wishes. You're single and free to go find a man who doesn't engage in this behavior.

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If you dont' feel you're good enough, then bounce and go work on your feelings of self worth. Frankly, this guy isn't the guy to be spending those kinds of feelings on. In his mind, he's single and free to look at whomever he wishes. You're single and free to go find a man who doesn't engage in this behavior.

 

Very well said!! I second this!

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We broken up a while on back in 2012 but for past couple month now we been dating not bf and gf he said he not ready yet to be bf and gf again but he said he like where we are right now in whatever this is with us we in a complicated" relationship hard to explain

 

There is nothing at all complicated about this.

 

You don't have a relationship with him. You are casually dating him and he's keeping his options open. You are not a priority and he's not of the mind to make you a priority at this time.

 

The only thing that is complicating this is you not seeing what is in front of you---wanting what you want despite the warning signs all around.

 

In another thread, you want to starve yourself so that he won't "crush" on other girls.

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