s88 Posted April 4, 2014 Author Share Posted April 4, 2014 Hi guys, Just thought I'd give a quick update and say a huge thanks for all of the advice! I can't believe I posted this thread back in January and now it's April, wow that went by quick! Anyways I moved out and have been living on my own for a little bit now and all I can say is oh my goodness, I wish I would have done this LONG ago. I am seriously happier than I have been in years, I've been so miserable for the past several years that I forgot I could even be this happy. My friends and family are amazing, living on my own is amazing, I just can't believe how perfectly everything has fallen into place It's amazing how much your mood can improve when you don't have someone calling you stupid and useless everyday, lol. I haven't talked to him at all since I moved out and honestly I'll be perfectly content never talking to him again in my life. Soo a big THANKS for everyone's support, I feel like my life is 100000% better since I last posted! Link to comment
Lester Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Be proud of yourself... you took an action step. Do you think you were in a non-marriage? Have you divorced? Looking back, with what you know now... why do you think you married him? Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Wonderful! Enjoy your new life... and next time watch for the signs of someone who is abusive so that you can avoid a repeat in future. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 Divorce is a sad thing because it is the end of dreams of a beautiful and happy future for two people for the rest of their lives but there are situations like yours where it is needed and must be done. To bad more divorces can't go as smoothly as yours did. You were so young when you married I hope you take some real time to be single and figure out who you are and what you want for your life. I think this time right now can be an awakening of sorts for you. Also as Lavender said don't forget the lessons you learned so you can spot trouble before it goes to far. Best wishes Lost Link to comment
s88 Posted April 5, 2014 Author Share Posted April 5, 2014 I hope you take some real time to be single and figure out who you are and what you want for your life. I think this time right now can be an awakening of sorts for you. Also as Lavender said don't forget the lessons you learned so you can spot trouble before it goes to far. Best wishes Lost Oh I definitely plan on being single for a looong time. I'm thinking years At this point I have absolutely no desire for any relationship whatsoever. Looking back, with what you know now... why do you think you married him? I wish I could come up with a good answer for that, but I really can't. Young and dumb I suppose? I am seriously looking back on my relationship with him wondering what in the heck I was possibly thinking. Link to comment
Lester Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Did you divorce and if not, why not? Link to comment
s88 Posted April 6, 2014 Author Share Posted April 6, 2014 Did you divorce and if not, why not? I have not filed for divorce yet, only because it costs $400 and moving out cost me quite a chunk of money. However we will be filing for divorce when I get paid next week, so yes we are definitely divorcing, it just hasn't happened quite yet. Link to comment
CeeLambrini Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 Congratulations, really good to hear you are doing well Link to comment
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