Aaron Hodges Posted January 19, 2014 Author Share Posted January 19, 2014 Thanks Sharky. She let me spend the first month after the breakup thinking about everything I'd done wrong before admitting she was dating him. So I know everything I would have done differently - gone through it all with my councilor in fact. She suggested I write them down in a letter and give it to her, which really helped me move past them (this was before she confirmed my biggest fears). I don't think she actually ever read it though. Don't think she wants to face it because it shows how much I was willing to recognise where i'd gone wrong and work on things. Maybe she will one day, I don't know. Now I know the rest of the story, I realise it wasn't all my fault. I still recognise where I went wrong, and I hope I can move forward and fix those things. I just wish I'd had the chance to do so with her. There's no excuse for cheating. Please, don't blame yourself. This one's on her. If she had issues or problems with your relationship.... she didn't need to turn to another guy. She could've worked them out with you -- but chose instead to get swept up in the excitment and newness of the honeymoon phase with someone else. Nice! Link to comment
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